As has become common thinking, we often feel less than satisfied with what we have accomplished in life. This is often due to low confidence and ability to respect ourselves, says a psychologist. According to him, a self-esteem is highly dependent on the attitude of others to us. By asking people’s opinions, then the self-confidence more easily accepted than the size given by themselves.
Like a small child. They are very dependent from adult humans are nearby to express confidence in herself.
From that, throughout our lives as if our self-confidence depend on others for providing the assessment. To express confidence that, we often describe the ideal figure. While certainly an ideal figure may be too perfect and no defects.
What about self-esteem?
Because by not having confidence, then their expectations also declined to create an ideal figure in him. Included is a successful figure. As a result, because they feel less confident lead just always tried to run away from her failures. In fact, when it reaches a good thing though, they better believe in luck, or because the task is too easy.
It’s like a vicious circle
“People will not achieve success because they are not satisfied with himself, on the other hand they do not feel confident because I feel it never works”.
We must always instill into our minds that:
“Success always starts with confidence, with confidence you will achieve everything you want”
The core of all this is self-confidence. To foster self-confidence, make a list of all your attitude and character are positive (the more the better). It is rather difficult at first, and if you’re unsure about having an attitude and character as you write yourself. Actually, that’s your recognition of the quality of your own. How people will respect you if you do not realize it?
