6 September 2010, 11:01 am
As has become common thinking, we often feel less than satisfied with what we have accomplished in life. This is often due to low confidence and ability to respect ourselves, says a psychologist. According to him, a self-esteem is highly dependent on the attitude of others to us. By asking people’s opinions, then the self-confidence more easily accepted than the size given by themselves.
Like a small child. They are very dependent from adult humans are nearby to express confidence in herself.
From that, throughout our lives as if our self-confidence depend on others for providing the assessment. To express confidence that, we often describe the ideal figure. While certainly an ideal figure may be too perfect and no defects.
What about self-esteem?
Because by not having confidence, then their expectations also declined to create an ideal figure in him. Included is a successful figure. As a result, because they feel less confident lead just always tried to run away from her failures. In fact, when it reaches a good thing though, they better believe in luck, or because the task is too mdah.
It’s like a vicious circle
“People will not achieve success because they are not satisfied with himself, on the other hand they do not feel confident because I feel it never works.
We must always instill into our minds that:
“Success always starts with confidence, with confidence you will achieve everything you want”
The core of all this is self-confidence. To foster self-confidence, make a list of all your attitude and character are positive (the more the better). It is rather difficult at first, and if you’re unsure about having an attitude and character as you write yourself. Actually, that’s your recognition of the quality of your own. How people will respect you if you do not realize it?
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4 September 2010, 10:36 am
One thing is for sure make people willing to do anything including having the Internet business is money. But did not everyone do his job just for money, but more on target to become rich. Of course with a rich, money is not a problem anymore. Leisure time became their goal to become rich. After winning every comfort, finally has the aura of power. In other words, the richer we become, we have power.
We conducted a survey to find out whether most people want to become rich, of course the answer will be more who said “Yes.”
But when asked whether they wished to become the richest man in the world, the answer to their surprise. Types answer is “no.” They never had a desire to be the richest in the world.
Then why do they all want to be rich, but do not want to be the richest?
Of the many surveys suggest that we are too afraid to have a capacity which never imagined. Why? Because we’re not trained ability to create a mentality like that. Needed mental exercise that makes the value of self-sufficient to have a pretty tough mentally even bear so much responsibility if the dream to become the richest man to become a reality.
In general, to become a successful mental attitude that is not necessary confined to the ability of such person. Because when we create the dreams, the instinct will be to create and comparison with what could be done at that time. In fact, a dream does not require that the maximal ability, but on the contrary. If we have a dream, it will push ourselves to stimulate skills and dig deeper.
Perform tests on yourself, whether your mind is still closed and limited by your disability? too afraid to accept the situation if your dreams are too high? How worthy you want to reach for your dreams? it all depends on you to manage your thoughts.
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